rebeccad
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Post by rebeccad on Dec 7, 2015 22:10:39 GMT -8
And I don't have to go out of sight to pee. This may be the best reason yet to hike alone. It's HARD to get out of sight of yourself!
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Post by williamh4 on Dec 8, 2015 10:41:52 GMT -8
I did my backpacking solo all the time(so far i have done 4 times),because my friends don't interesting about backpacking. so i decide do it by myself. it is great experience,but to be honest,first night stay in the wilderness kind of scary.because no one camp with me. I said to myself that i just frighten myself by my imagination,so i listen to the creek near my and fall sleep. after that i enjoyed all my backpacking trip. I love to camp near creek or lake,felt great. I don't have a lot of backpacking experience and i don't know how to use compass to navigation. So i choose popular trail and well maintain trail for my trip. before i start my trip i would do research about the trail and follow the design trail. so far i don't have any bad experience happen to me. Wish you have a great trip. Although my story isn't about backpacking, your story reminded me of a night I was really scared. When I was around 20 years old. I went to live with my grandfather in a very large old house (just under 20,000 sq feet), and about 150 years old. It's an old southern plantation home. Similar to what you see in the movies with the wrap-around porch and pillars. It was just the 2 of us. I took a room upstairs. My grandmother told me she would see ghosts on occasion. I didn't believe in ghosts, but it really didn't matter. I was so scared, I lay awake most of the night looking and listening for ghosts. I got to the point I was so tired, I thought, "I'm going to sleep, I don't care about the ghosts".
That was off subject, but your story reminded me of that night. You did a great job overcoming your fear of being alone.
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Post by speacock on Dec 8, 2015 11:39:58 GMT -8
Only a few years ago we did England's Coast to Coast walk. It rained every damn day, but she never complained and just kept on trekkin'. Going east to west for 190 miles, we had 2 days of partly cloudy, one day so hot near the end that the guide was near collapse, and one day of constant rain - the last day. I have a picture taken looking up at the trail of slurry mud so steep that all the picture shows are muddy butts. (My heart goes out to trekkerman) As we walked into the last hotel, completely covered in mud and scratches - completely sodden, we were met by the owner who directed us around back to the service entrance. There was a formal wedding reception just starting. We definitely were not presentable. As we left the storage area and started to go up the stairs to our rooms, a matronly, VERY proper English woman, backed up by several of the guests detached from the party, looked at me over the top of her glasses, and asked, "And just WHHOO are YOOU?!" I replied without a pause, "We're the entertainment. Where do we set up?" She immediately burst into laughter and let us pass. Some time later after cleaning up we were all sitting on the top of the stairs like kids on Christmas Eve, waiting for them to clear out so we could start our 'conquest' party together. Our 'matron' who turned out to be the mother of the bride invited us all down to join them. Heck of a going away party. Of the 10 that were with us, only one other was a 'couple'. Except for one, the remaining were women (typical on trips like this) looking for a 'safe' adventure that was challenging. We had two weeks to talk about doing the Wainwright solo. All agreed it was much more fun as a group. That was my wife's last long trail. Hip replaced within three months.
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Post by BigLoad on Dec 18, 2015 20:11:33 GMT -8
It doesn't always take a pot of gold. Three goals that work well for Mrs. big_load are lakes, waterfalls, and (best of all) ruins. I'm gonna go out on a limb and also guess that you probably don't call her "Mrs. Big_load" out there. Some ladies don't appreciate that.  Not usually, but she has a name or two for me. 
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Post by trekkerman on Dec 18, 2015 20:26:42 GMT -8
All in all, the best "couple" experience might well be the Camino de Santiago across northern Spain. Delightful small towns, great vistas, fun, food and wine; and you can stay in hostels, hotels, or refugios. Generally the hiking is easy with a few "ups" and pretty good weather. Lots of socialization with folks from around the world. Can't say enough good things about the experience. Trekkerman
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Post by jaspert on Dec 22, 2015 13:29:52 GMT -8
Is there a way to see the most recent replies at the top instead of the last page?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2016 22:48:18 GMT -8
I love solo back-country travel; it is something I cherish and crave. I deal with people with serious problem at work and o find going solo really allows me to decompress, refocus, and refresh. Happy Trails, RS I agree! I've taken my brother with on a couple of hikes, but I hike alone 98% of the time. Going it alone not only allows me to choose when and where and how I want to go, but it allows me to leave all the noise behind and focus on the beauty of nature. It's a sort of meditation, I suppose. That said, however amazing it is to hike solo, it's always important to have a backup plan just incase something goes wrong.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 9, 2016 13:52:57 GMT -8
williamh4: So did you end up going on your solo backpacking trip? To answer the question, I hike solo most of the time. I would enjoy having a companion but it rarely works out due to conflicting life schedules. I agree with the poster who said they would rather go solo than not go at all.
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Post by grace on Aug 10, 2016 8:33:26 GMT -8
I've spent this summer learning to car camp and day hike alone, but I'm getting ready for my first overnight backpacking trip. Solo. Kind of freaked out, but whatever. Technically there are only a few hours between nightfall and dawn, which is when I'm most likely to freak myself out over nothing.
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Post by Coolkat on Aug 10, 2016 9:33:45 GMT -8
I'm getting ready for my first overnight backpacking trip. Solo. Kind of freaked out How many nights? 1, 2, 3??
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Post by grace on Aug 10, 2016 9:38:27 GMT -8
How many nights? 1, 2, 3?? Just one, close to home, but far enough that I have to stay overnight (no running back to my car the first time there's a squirrel). I'm excited!
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Post by Coolkat on Aug 10, 2016 10:23:14 GMT -8
By the time I did a solo trip I had already done enough multi-day hikes with other people that it wasn't much of an issue. I hope all goes well for you. I remember as a kid and going on a family car camping trip. I didn't want to sleep in the truck camper with everyone else so I got my own little pup tent and set up just a few feet away from the camper where the rest of the family was. During the night I woke up to something digging on the side of the tent. In my groggy half-sleep state I kicked at the critter through the tent. It stopped for a minute and then continued to dig on the wall of the tent. This time I really kicked it hard and it stopped for good and I went back to sleep. When I woke in the morning and the night's experience hit me full force when I realized it could have been a skunk and then I'd be in a stinky problem. 
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Post by amydiercon on Aug 11, 2016 1:22:37 GMT -8
I like hiking with my friends, we can talk to share our stories and take care of each others on the road. It's very interesting.
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Post by exhausted on Aug 13, 2016 16:55:51 GMT -8
I go solo a lot but only because I have to. It is hard to find people that want to go out into the mountains for a few days without being able to access their social media accounts. BUT..... There is not a single solo trip I've been on where my boot didn't hit a rock in the wrong way leaving me to think to myself "how would I get myself out of here and to work on Monday if I sustained A serious injury ?" If you must, you must, but I do not recommend backpacking alone. But we do it. People also skydive. People do lots of seemingly irresponsible things while others sit safely on their couch.
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Post by johntpenca on Aug 13, 2016 23:38:05 GMT -8
All most all of my hikes are solo. I used to hike with 2 or 3 friends, but they moved away. I prefer solo so I can do my own thing. Most of my hiking is off trail. Going solo lets me go at my own pace without distractions. If I get hurt I'll deal with it, but have never had an injury bad enough I could not deal with it on my own. It drives my dad crazy that I solo but I feel comfortable with it.
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